Whether it’s someone you just met or a long-time partner, getting the news that she is unexpectedly pregnant can be daunting.
Whether you feel surprise, panic, or something in between, your feelings are valid. If you feel powerless because the decision is ultimately hers, there are still ways you can show up and be supportive and hopefully reach a decision together.
We can help you sort through your feelings and find the support you need. Schedule a free appointment today to get the help you deserve.
Be a Safe Space
This is a vulnerable time for both of you, especially for your partner. While you are feeling overwhelmed and surprised, do what it takes to show up and be supportive for your partner.
It’s okay if you need to set aside time to process the news, whether by yourself or with a trusted friend. However, make sure to communicate your thoughts and offer to be available to her.
Gather More Information
Take the time to do your research and evaluate each option: adoption, parenting, or abortion (which is illegal in Texas except when deemed necessary to save the woman’s life).
If your partner is undecided, a great place to start is with a free ultrasound, which will allow her to confirm necessary details, such as the pregnancy’s gestational age, viability, and location. These details affect available options.
For example, knowing if the pregnancy is progressing or if she has miscarried can let your partner know how to move forward. We provide free ultrasounds if your partner qualifies.
Understand Your Available Options
At our center, we offer free options consultations where you and your partner can receive medically accurate information about her options. This is a safe space to ask questions, find answers, and connect with local resources.
Whether you are both aligned or have different opinions, gathering more information can go a long way towards feeling confident in your next steps. Contact us today!
Options Clinic does not provide or refer for abortions.